Is it Hard to Get Divorced in Massachusetts?

In Massachusetts, obtaining a divorce is not inherently difficult due to its no-fault divorce system. However, the complexity and ease of the process can vary based on individual circumstances, such as whether it’s contested or uncontested, and the presence of specific legal issues like property division or child custody. While it may not be inherently hard, it’s crucial to seek legal guidance to navigate the process successfully and ensure your rights and interests are protected.


Considering divorce is a challenging and emotional decision, and you likely have many questions and concerns. In this article, we’ll aim to provide you with valuable insights into the divorce process in Massachusetts, with a focus on affordable legal help.

Understanding Divorce
in Massachusetts

Divorce in Massachusetts is not necessarily hard, but it can be complex. First and foremost, it’s important to know that Massachusetts is a no-fault divorce state. This means that you don’t have to prove any wrongdoing by your spouse to get a divorce. Whether it’s an amicable separation or a more contentious one, the court will grant your divorce without assigning blame. You can seek a fault-based divorce, but it’s generally not recommended.

There are primarily two types of divorces: contested and uncontested. In an uncontested divorce, you and your spouse agree on all major issues, making the process smoother and more affordable. In contrast, contested divorces involve disputes over significant matters like property division, child custody, or spousal support, which can make the process more challenging and costly.

The Divorce Process

Navigating the divorce process in Massachusetts involves several steps. First, you’ll need to initiate the case by filing a Complaint for Divorce with the appropriate court. If it’s an uncontested divorce, you’ll file a Joint Petition along with all the other paperwork at the same time including a Separation Agreement outlining the terms of your divorce, such as:

  • property division,
  • child custody, and
  • support,.


Next, if it’s a contested divorce, you’ll need to serve divorce papers on your spouse, informing them of the proceedings. Your spouse will then have the opportunity to respond to the petition.

Establishing legal grounds for divorce is essential, even in a no-fault state like Massachusetts. While you don’t need to prove fault, you do need to demonstrate an irretrievable breakdown of the marriage.

Dividing Assets and Debts

One of the significant aspects of any divorce is the division of assets and debts. In Massachusetts, the court follows the principle of equitable distribution, which means that marital property and debts should be divided fairly, though not necessarily equally. Factors like:

  • the length of your marriage,
  • your contributions, and
  • your financial circumstances

play a role in determining the division.

Child Custody and Support

For couples with children, child custody and support become paramount issues in a divorce. Massachusetts courts prioritize the best interests of the child when determining custody arrangements. They consider factors like:

  • the child’s age,
  • preferences, and
  • each parent’s ability to provide a stable environment.


Child support is calculated based on guidelines that consider both parents’ incomes and the child’s needs. If you’re concerned about child custody and support, remember that the court’s primary concern is the child’s welfare. Seeking an amicable agreement with your spouse through mediation or negotiation can often lead to more affordable and less emotionally taxing outcomes.

Spousal Support (Alimony)

Alimony, also known as spousal support, may be a factor in your divorce. Massachusetts offers different types of alimony, depending on your specific circumstances. The court considers factors like:

  • the length of your marriage,
  • your financial need, and
  • your spouse’s ability to pay

when awarding alimony.

Alimony can be a vital financial lifeline during and after divorce. Whether you’re seeking alimony or may be required to pay it, understanding the various types and the factors that influence alimony decisions is crucial. Negotiating an alimony agreement that aligns with your financial situation can be a cost-effective approach.

The Challenges You
May Encounter

Divorce is never easy, and you may encounter emotional stress, disagreements with your spouse, and potential delays in the process. However, it’s important to remember that you’re not alone in facing these challenges. It’s important to prioritize self-care during this difficult time. Seeking support from professionals, friends, and family can provide much-needed emotional assistance.

An affordable divorce is possible. At Afford Law, our fees are based on your income, so the less you earn, the less you pay. Our mission is to provide experienced legal help you can afford.

If you can’t afford our lower rates for a traditional attorney-client relationship, you have another option. Our legal coaching service can save you money and still give you access to a skilled attorney. In this arrangement, you represent yourself in court while we work with you behind the scenes to prepare you every step of the way. This service is available to you for one low monthly fee.


In conclusion, while divorce in Massachusetts may present its challenges, you can get through this. With the right guidance, legal knowledge, and emotional support, you can navigate this process effectively. My goal as your attorney is to provide you with affordable legal help tailored to your unique situation.

Legal Disclaimer

This article is intended for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Please consult with an attorney to discuss your specific circumstances and receive tailored guidance.

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